| If you havent noticed I dont use this anymore
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| The bitterness is growing and I cant stop it. Whats left you ask? Throw Jaded and into the mix and you get the solution. I give up. This dating thing sucks |
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| Never knowing what to feel, and never knowing what to say, so in turn
saying nothing seems like a viable option sometimes. What comes next
though? The bottling of emotions and anger and resentment and
bitterness come in until its practically overflowing. What happens at
that point? Perhaps at this point the breaking point is reached.
The question is though just what do these break downs that subsequent
the human race consist of? At first thought, a convincing argument says
that this article consists of the relationship game, that it consists
of the scarring left by an unhappy relationships. Though true, people
do suffer years after relationships and true that it is a valid part of
something bigger as every human has felt those numbing feelings that
hurt more than mere words can even describe. Relationships however are
just a small portion of the pool of emotions that every human draws
from. Everything else is merely sub content of this. So then what is
this grander scheme? What makes the average person so upset and so
emotional?
It comes from the way people live thief lives. It’s the fact that a
person wants to mean something, to succeed, to rise above whatever
obstacles there are. What it comes down to however, is a lack of belief
in one’s self. Instead of the ability to succeed, there is more of a
focus on the inability to succeed. In other words, focusing on the
impossibilities that seem so apparent, so insurmountable.
Take for instance this illustration of three people staring at a
mountain. One person looks at a mountain and says it’s impossible and
no one can make that. Another looks and says it might be possible but
not for me. Then there is one person that believes, and with every step
grows closer to success. So what separates these groups of people?
Fear, it’s a single word that everyone understands. Everyone is afraid
of something whether it is big or small, there is always fear. So the
next question is what keeps some from conquering there fear and others
from rising above their fear? For this one, look in a mirror. Its been
said that a persons biggest enemy is often themselves. While this is
not always true, for most it is. It matters not the reason, all that
matters is the fact that it’s true. The fear holds us captive; there is
a certain fear to being happy because “What If Im not happy?” the
person says. “I have been through this before and it turned out I
wasn’t happy” Wonderful then! What’s decided at this point is, people
should hide behind their fear because God forbid ever taking a chance!
Anyone who wants to be miserable can go ahead and line up at this
point.
Chances are what make life worth living. The fact of not having all the
answers and life being unpredictable is what makes life worth living.
Put facts where facts belong, no one has ever gotten anywhere living
behind fear. Fear is not a safe haven, it’s a place where people
convince themselves that they can remain locked up and be perfectly
happy. If that’s the life one chooses, well good luck. Life is more
than fear. Look at every person in history and ask yourself what would
have happened if they had lived by fear. Perhaps to scared to fight,
perhaps to scared to explore uncharted territory, or even the fact of
being to scared to run a country; the point is things wouldn’t be the
way they are today if it were not for people conquering fear and moving
on.
So the question to ask; should one live in fear or live life the way
it’s meant to be lived? That’s the question so what is the answer? |
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| Hope everyone has a merry christmas..... as for me,well I just want to get the holidays over with. Things havent been the best lately and sorta feels like im staying at the end of my rope. hopefully it willget better soon |
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